To the Females?? Change the Game

Seriously its 2008. Women need to step it up for the new year. Friends, Sistas, Aunts, Mothers, Grandmothers. Its time we share the truth with the females. There are so many things that upsets me today that I just had to say..

1. Stop having babies to keep a man. Honey, if he dont want you there is nothing in this world that will make him stay. Not even his own flesh and blood. So get it through ur thick skull.

2. Stop having these kids so you can get a damn check. That shht aint worth a dime when it comes to child care expenses, food, clothes, lunch money and the other daily maintenance.

3. Stop playing these games to get what you want out of a man. The same way you can scheme to trick a man out of his change you could use that brain power and start your own business.

4. Set goals in life and strive to be more than just a babymama. How about someone's wife. There is more to life than having kids out of wedlock or having babies to get a check. Or sleeping with a whole bunch of men to get money.

5. Stop disrespecting other females. You know Kendra is with John. Why are you going to intervene in their relationship just so you can prove a point. Then when karma comes back you call down the heavens and wonder why bad things happen to you. What goes around must come around honey.

6. Love yourself enough. I cant even stress this enough. Honestly if you cant even love yourself how can you be in a relationship. Or better yet, how can anyone love you?

7. Mothers, stop lying for your son and protecting these men like they are still children. Allowing them to stay with you when they know they have responsibilities. If you dont let them be a man when are they ever going to be one. Let them be grown if they want to go out their and make babies with different females and not pay child support.

8. Stop being so dependent on a man for everything. God gave us the same tools that they have. So we are capable of taking care of ourselves and doing things on our own. You dont NEED a man, you WANT a man. Dont get those words twisted. There is a difference.

9. Step your game up and make something of yourself and stop placing the blame on others. See if women was to start honing there own and getting an education alot of things wouldnt occur. For instance, if god forbids she ends up with a child out of wedlock, with her having the capacity to take care of herself she wouldnt be struggling and living on government assistance and waiting on some damn child support. Then blaming the system or the man for your miserable life. You are the one who make the choices in your life. So when things arent going well your the one to blame and no one else.

10. Close your legs. You dont have to sleep with every tom, dick and harry you date. Your body is a temple. Each time you let a man inside your wonderland he leaves a little bit of him inside of you. Thats why some of you females carry a stank smell and dont even know it. With all the men that run up in it and the damn smell you cant seem to get rid of is no wonder these men are going elsewhere.

I could go on and on. But its up to you to think about the things going on in your life, in your relationships and try to change. Because change comes from within.