To the Females?? Change the Game

Seriously its 2008. Women need to step it up for the new year. Friends, Sistas, Aunts, Mothers, Grandmothers. Its time we share the truth with the females. There are so many things that upsets me today that I just had to say..

1. Stop having babies to keep a man. Honey, if he dont want you there is nothing in this world that will make him stay. Not even his own flesh and blood. So get it through ur thick skull.

2. Stop having these kids so you can get a damn check. That shht aint worth a dime when it comes to child care expenses, food, clothes, lunch money and the other daily maintenance.

3. Stop playing these games to get what you want out of a man. The same way you can scheme to trick a man out of his change you could use that brain power and start your own business.

4. Set goals in life and strive to be more than just a babymama. How about someone's wife. There is more to life than having kids out of wedlock or having babies to get a check. Or sleeping with a whole bunch of men to get money.

5. Stop disrespecting other females. You know Kendra is with John. Why are you going to intervene in their relationship just so you can prove a point. Then when karma comes back you call down the heavens and wonder why bad things happen to you. What goes around must come around honey.

6. Love yourself enough. I cant even stress this enough. Honestly if you cant even love yourself how can you be in a relationship. Or better yet, how can anyone love you?

7. Mothers, stop lying for your son and protecting these men like they are still children. Allowing them to stay with you when they know they have responsibilities. If you dont let them be a man when are they ever going to be one. Let them be grown if they want to go out their and make babies with different females and not pay child support.

8. Stop being so dependent on a man for everything. God gave us the same tools that they have. So we are capable of taking care of ourselves and doing things on our own. You dont NEED a man, you WANT a man. Dont get those words twisted. There is a difference.

9. Step your game up and make something of yourself and stop placing the blame on others. See if women was to start honing there own and getting an education alot of things wouldnt occur. For instance, if god forbids she ends up with a child out of wedlock, with her having the capacity to take care of herself she wouldnt be struggling and living on government assistance and waiting on some damn child support. Then blaming the system or the man for your miserable life. You are the one who make the choices in your life. So when things arent going well your the one to blame and no one else.

10. Close your legs. You dont have to sleep with every tom, dick and harry you date. Your body is a temple. Each time you let a man inside your wonderland he leaves a little bit of him inside of you. Thats why some of you females carry a stank smell and dont even know it. With all the men that run up in it and the damn smell you cant seem to get rid of is no wonder these men are going elsewhere.

I could go on and on. But its up to you to think about the things going on in your life, in your relationships and try to change. Because change comes from within.

Designer Kimora Lee Simmons poses on the red carpet at Suzy Wongs

Sources say that her and that sexy African man DJimon or whatever his name is are engage. Look carefully at her fingers notice the ring.

Star Jones poses on the red carpet at Suzy Wongs

Will someone enlighten Star Jones darkness and tell her she will and never be seen or be considered Sexy or cute.

She is known only to others as the that fat witch who married that battyman. Lord she makes me want to throw up. Cover tht shht up.

Singer Mary J. Blige attends the Official Super Bowl XLII Talent and Player Gift Lounge

WHy Mary? Why? Why in the world your gonna leave the house without ur mask on? Every celebrity know dang on well the number 1 rule is always to look fab for the cam. I guess as you get older stuff like that might not matter to you. BUt as ur fan I dont want to see you look like you just walked out of the bed and showed up.

TV personalities Khloe Kardashian, Kim Kardashian and Kourtney Kardashian attend the Wyclef Jean and Benji Madden performance

Tranny hore K, Sex tape performer K & the innocent kardashian. A family of different cultures & background.

The kardashian sistas

TV personality Kim Kardashian attends the Wyclef Jean and Benji Madden performance

I must admit Kim K. Looks absolutely stunning. Shht with all that money she spent on reconstruction she better look this good. I wonder how she would look 15yrs from now. You know them peeps dont age well. HUn enjoy while it last, you wont ever look this good yrs from now.

Other Celebs at the new BlackBerry Pearl 8130 Smartphone from Verizon launch party

TIchina ArNold looks amazing..

Rosario mighty fab..
Dania totally sexylicious.
But you had to come mess it up for the others. Dont get me wrong i love her but whoever his ur stylist guRL fire their asses. YOu look like the bottom of my shoes.
Now Vivica. VIvica, VIvica ,VIvica. What in the hell is wrong with you? WHy you had to leave the house looking like that. GuRL dont you know better. With all the money you have, you mean to tell me you couldnt throw on a damn wig. Bless ur heart.

Actor Nick Cannon arrives at the new BlackBerry Pearl 8130 Smartphone from Verizon launch party

I must admit NIck Cannon looks so much better in these pics. I was about to think he is slipping because that dumb witch Selita left his behind.

Actress Jessica Alba arrives at "The Eye Premiere" Los Angeles premiere at the Pacific Cinerama Dome Theatre

Jessica Alba is looking might fab at her movie premiere. I hope this is not a flop like the last movie.

Rapper Bobby Valentino attends the "Best Damn Super Bowl Party Period" at the Rockridge Estate

I am in love with Bobby V. Look at him. So sexy, so so handsome.. I heard he is like 4'9. I wouldnt even give a damn . He is at the right height for you know what. Love you boy..